Let me know what you need. If it’s a hug, a snuggle, a kiss or just a hot cup of tea, or you know, that beer we keep stashed in the basement. Let me know. If you’re hurting, then I want to be there. I want you to feel better.

My heart goes out to you. It aches right along side your heart. If you’re hurting because of something someone else did, let me know. Vent to me, cry to me, yell to me, tell me everything you are feeling. If you’re hurting because of something I did, I’m so very sorry.

The thing about love is that it makes us vulnerable to be hurt by the ones we love. I assure you, whatever I did, I did not mean to hurt you. It’s a consequence of something I did. Once you take time to do whatever you need to do, tell me. Tell me what I did and how it made you feel. Tell me so I won’t do it again.

If you’re hurting, love, I don’t want you to be. I want you to feel loved and filled with joy. I want you to move from hurt to comfort. So tell me how to help you do that. Tell what I need to do so you can find happiness and joy for yourself.