Oh love, My heart breaks for you. This isn't what you wanted or what I wanted. And it is completely out of our hands. Let me hold you, love. Let me hold you while you cry, while you curse, while you run worries around your head so much that you don't know where to begin … Continue reading Open when you get fired… #loveletters #openwhen
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Open when you’re having a bad day… #openwhen #loveletter
I hope you’re still at the point where venting will help. Vent away, babe. I’m here to listen to you complain about whatever. If you’re not at that point anymore, if you’re being just talking it out, then I’ll snuggle with you, I’ll cuddle with you, I’ll buy you ice cream and watch you play … Continue reading Open when you’re having a bad day… #openwhen #loveletter
Open when you’re nervous… #openwhen #loveletters
I know you get nervous, babe. You always get anxious, especially about certain things like school. I want you to take a few deep, calming breaths. Close your eyes and focus only on you and God for a moment. I want you to breathe in God’s presence and let it calm you, relax you, ease … Continue reading Open when you’re nervous… #openwhen #loveletters
Open when you need a laugh… #openwhen #loveletter
I think it’s ironic that on this day, a day I should need a laugh the most, this is the topic I chose months ago. We’re already so in tune! I don’t even know where to begin. I could tell you a few jokes, but they would probably be lame and not as funny as … Continue reading Open when you need a laugh… #openwhen #loveletter
Open when you have doubts about us… #openwhen #loveletters
It’s not simple to worry or work through this one. It’s complicated and scary. Very scary for me and probably for you. When you have doubts about us, everything compounds and it’s hard to get out of that thinking. All I can do is to ask you to remember why you thought we could work. … Continue reading Open when you have doubts about us… #openwhen #loveletters
Open when you have doubts about God… #openwhen #loveletters
This one isn’t easy. I’ve watching you in faith since we’ve known each other, and I’ve seen you grow so much. Partly it might be because of my job, but I don’t ever want my work to force you to have doubts. You’ll readily see the good and the bad about faith if you stand … Continue reading Open when you have doubts about God… #openwhen #loveletters
Open when you feel out of place… #openwhen #loveletters
Babe, don’t worry. I got this one. I know EXACTLY where you place is. It’s right here. See? Right here! Right next to me. Side by side, we have found our place together. Neither one of us is in front of the other. We’re not the leader or the follower. In some things yes, but … Continue reading Open when you feel out of place… #openwhen #loveletters
Open when you feel like giving up on something… #openwhen
It’s okay to give up. It’s okay to say you can’t do something anymore. It’s okay when the dream you had isn’t exactly the reality you found. It’s hard, and it’s not easy. But I will support you in any and all changes you feel you need to make to your life. If … Continue reading Open when you feel like giving up on something… #openwhen
Open when you need some extra loving… #openwhen
I want to snuggle with you. Wrap my arms around your middle and press my head to your chest. I want to entwine our legs together and hold on tightly, not letting go for hours. You are my one and only. I can’t tell you that enough. You’re the only one I want and … Continue reading Open when you need some extra loving… #openwhen
Open when the distance is too much… #openwhen
I really wanted to save up enough to put in here so you could buy a ticket to wherever I was. But you know me…not my style. Physical distance is not something you and I deal with easily. We can handle it for a few days, maybe close to a week, but anything longer and … Continue reading Open when the distance is too much… #openwhen
Open when you’re thinking about us… #openwhen
Hey babe, You remember when we first met? I was sitting against the cement wall at Fireside Pies, waiting for you because you were late. Who knew that would be something I should remember about you for the future? Anyway, do you remember it? When I was on the phone talking to Katherine and you … Continue reading Open when you’re thinking about us… #openwhen
Open when you’re sick… #openwhen #loveletter
Let me know, baby. Let me know and I’ll take care of you. I’ll make you elbows and special soup, and chicken and dumplings (because that’s your thing not mine). I’ll get you medicine and tuck you in. We’ll watch whatever you want to watch on television. I want you to feel better. You can … Continue reading Open when you’re sick… #openwhen #loveletter
Open when you’re angry but not with me… #openwhen #loveletter
It’s okay to vent, and I want you to vent, but do remember there’s a time when anger doesn’t do anything for you, when you just have to let it go and not look at it anymore. There comes a time when anger is no longer useful. You might not be at that time … Continue reading Open when you’re angry but not with me… #openwhen #loveletter
Open when you’re sad… #openwhen #loveletters
I’m so sorry, love. I’m sorry this feeling is taking over you. I don’t know what I can do to help other than cuddle you and hold you close. It’s okay to cry. I really do mean that. It doesn’t make you any less of a person to shed the tears. It’s okay to want … Continue reading Open when you’re sad… #openwhen #loveletters
Open when you’re happy… #Openwhen #loveletters
I love you. I love seeing you smile and those dimples you get in your cheeks. So if you’re really happy and smiling like a maniac, I want you to go find me. Put this letter down, go find me and tell me all about it. Let’s celebrate whatever it is that’s making you happy … Continue reading Open when you’re happy… #Openwhen #loveletters
Open when you’re lonely… #loveletters #openwhen #love
I know you get lonely, far more easily than I do. I’m used to being alone and it takes quite a bit of time for my aloneness to turn to loneliness. But for you...you like to have people around. You like to have friends over and to chat and hang out with them far more … Continue reading Open when you’re lonely… #loveletters #openwhen #love
Open when you miss me… #loveletters #openwhen
It’s very apt that I’m writing this on this particular day. We’ve been married exactly one month today and you are gone for a whole week. I miss you, and I know you miss me. We’ve never had this problem as much now as we did before. Missing you now isn’t like missing you before. … Continue reading Open when you miss me… #loveletters #openwhen
Open when you miss me… #openwhen #loveletters
I don’t know if the distance is physical or mental both obviously there is a distance. I’ve gone from you and I don’t know why, and I don’t know how long it’s been. Remember that I do love you, so dearly. I never thought I would get married, truly believed it, until I met you. … Continue reading Open when you miss me… #openwhen #loveletters
Open when you’re mad at me
I know I’m going to piss you off at some point. God knows I have before, so I definitely will again. I’m hard headed, stubborn, but most importantly, when I knows I piss you off the most is when I’m scared. So ask me if I’m scared, and when I initially say no, let … Continue reading Open when you’re mad at me
Open when you need to know I’m there for you
I know you're having a rough time. You always show it in your shoulders. You tense up and don't move as smoothly as normal. You walk stiffly and don't talk much. That's another tell-tale sign. You not talking because you constantly talk to me. You try to seclude yourself, and I'll let you have some … Continue reading Open when you need to know I’m there for you
Adrian J. Smith 